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Topic Discussion Action/Next Steps
Forum Feedback The forum got high marks. See evaluation summary. People clearly want the opportunity to share information and network. What has happened since? Ask "Have you used any of what you learned at the Forum?" in the next newsletter.
Website We agreed that the website is only one piece of the communications strategy. It must be complemented by the newsletter with links to the site, and most important, personal contact and stories. Ruth will add a stories page; those present will add stories and encourage others to add theirs.
Role of the Alliance This discussion was interwoven throughout the meeting. Ed Lawson captured it most clearly toward the end of the meeting when he said that we need to be focused on building the capacity of Hudson Valley organizations to strengthen fatherhood. Continue to evolve a vision and mission
Input from fathers Both the forum evaluations and this meeting's participants felt that we need to include the voice of fathers we serve in the planning and conversations. At the same time, since we are not meeting to provide direct service, participant-fathers couldn't focus on their personal needs (Shari said it better.) Outreach to service providers who are fathers to participate

Ask service providers to consider who among their clients might be good fathers to invite for specific or on-going conversations.
Next steps The group concluded that rather than send out a survey, we would continue the conversations begun at the forum with a weekly series of conversations this fall.
Here's a tentative plan: The conversations (or work groups) would be open to everyone and pick up on the forum workgroups. They would be opportunities to share resources, invite a speaker, have a panel, whatever seems needed. At the end of the session, participants will decide what the next step should be (if anything). Notes and recordings of the sessions can be posted.
  • Ruth will draft a schedule.of topics and dates
  • Steering committee members and forum participants will help plan the individual sessions.
  • Publicize through the enewsletter
Engaging fathers Nationwide, engaging fathers has been a challenge. Jack observed that as he works with community groups, they are all women. Donna noted that when she advertises a position, male candidates are rare.

Several tools to assess the "Father-friendliness" of agencies have been developed and are available on the web. The body of research on engaging fathers is slowly growing.
  • Share "father-friendly" assessment tools in the newsletter and on the resource pages
  • Consider another full day Forum on engaging fathers - keep on meeting agenda
  • Add the issue of recruiting men to the human services to our list of concerns to explore
Fatherhood Lending Library of Resources As we discussed resources, the idea emerged to have a real and virtual lending library of books, videos, sample curriculum, etc. re fatherhood and parenting.
Through the Federal fatherhood grant ChildFind has already begun to accumulate materials. We can also benefit from ChildFind's location in the South East NY Library Resource Center (SENYLRC) building, we can probably count on their advice.
  • Donna will set up the physical library and start the on-line links
  • We will request that everyone contribute or make recommendations.
  • Include a page for fathers of places to go and things to do in the Hudson Valley
Getting the word out Some groups were missing from the Forum and need outreach as we move forward:
  • Legislators
  • Court System
  • Substance Abuse (Jack Bennett was here for the first time today)
  • Mental Health (Donna has made a contact in Dutchess County)
  • Workforce (This is Jack's previous life so he can help with this)
  • Business (Martha has invited two Chamber of Commerce members and will follow up.)
  • Continue the practice of "bring someone with you" for all meetings
  • Include outreach to get all the players to the table for the work group meetings
  • Jack will provide info on the Ulster CCE listserv to include info there
Next meeting We'll use Meeting Wizard to determine the best date for the next meeting in about a month. Please respond quickly so people don't have to hold the dates.

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Philosophical last word Bob shared the advice he uses in all he does

"Live the change you want to see in the world."


-- Mahatma Gandhi
Attendance: Donna Linder, Martha Allers, Shari Doherty, Ed Lawson, Susan
Grecke, Ray Tomaselli, Bob Wurtzel, Jack Bennett, Ruth Wahtera



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